Susan Sontag

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Susan Sontag lists her 10 rules for raising a child:

  • Be consistent.
  • Don’t speak about him to others (e.g., tell funny things) in his presence. (Don’t make him self-conscious.)
  • Don’t praise him for something I wouldn’t always accept as good.
  • Don’t reprimand him harshly for something he’s been allowed to do.
  • Daily routine: eating, homework, bath, teeth, room, story, bed.
  • Don’t allow him to monopolize me when I am with other people.
  • Always speak well of his pop. (No faces, sighs, impatience, etc.)
  • Do not discourage childish fantasies.
  • Make him aware that there is a grown-up world that’s none of his business.
  • Don’t assume that what I don’t like to do (bath, hairwash) he won’t like either.